Sunday, December 4, 2011

A Masters Role

 
"Strong men simply need women. This will never be understood by weak men. A strong man needs a woman at his feet, who is truly his. Anything else is less than his fulfillment. When a man has once eaten the meat of the gods he will never again chew on the straw of fools." Explorers of Gor, page 12

 A Master slave relationship is practiced based upon Safe, sane and consensual principals. However, there are no days i do this and days i don't.

A slave must trust her Master. Trust that he will care for her life and wellbeing. A  Master takes the responsibility for his slave in what she does, how she acts, what she wears, what she learns; responsibility for all parts of her as well as her wellbeing and health. A true man does not willingly damage something valuable to him. Like anywhere else, there are pretenders, abusers, and people trying to do something they really are unfit to do. It is said that a man must master himself before he can master a slave. The good Masters do not need to prove themselves to anyone because they have already proved what they are to themselves. My slavery is not simply about sex. It is about service of a slave to her Master and the pleasing of him. Sex is there but it is not the most important thing. A  Master does not discipline a slave for her erotic enjoyment, or his, but to punish her. To make her understand that she was displeasing in her actions or attitudes and that she needs to change what he found displeasing.

Being a slave is an attitude and a way of life, not something you do in the bedroom or when you put on special clothes and go to a play party somewhere. It does not turn on or turn off when convenient.

Understand that this is my sole perception and understanding.



Above all else a Master values his slave and understands the vulnerability of her position. Knowing that she has assumed her correct place he is bound to compel her to behave as what she is, and to correct her as she strives to achieve the utmost fulfillment of her natural needs.

A Master is demanding and takes full advantage of the power he wields, but accepts the responsibility which comes with his Mastery. He takes pride in the achievements of his slaves, and rewards their devoted service by administering pleasure as he sees fit.

A Master is first and foremost Master of himself


A  Master holds the power over his, but is wise and compassionate enough with that power only using it in the best interests of his Mastery and to ensure that she grows in her slavery. A Master will reward his slave generously as he sees fit, also to compel obedience and to promote growth in her slavery..

A  Master’s role is never dictated merely by time or location. He will remember that the feelings and emotions of his slave are a vital part of his relationship with her, and will not hesitate to comfort or offer solace to his slave, should it seem good to him.

To be a  Master a man must be strong enough to command his slave’s respect and her trust, so that she may serve him willingly in the knowledge that he will allow nothing less. A  Master will strive at all times to guide and to teach a slave the truths of her position.

A Master is not afraid to demonstrate his humor, his kindness, and his warmth. The slave understands this and appreciates his softer qualities.

A Master should, through his deeds and actions, demonstrate to his slave that he is worthy of her service to him. He must be strong enough to maintain her under the strictest discipline even in an informal setting. He must prove himself inflexible when the situation requires it, and be wise enough to allow some leeway when it, too, is necessary.

A Master will be strong enough to defend what is his, when it becomes necessary. He will protect his slave from the consequences of his own folly, and see to it that she is suitably corrected when she errs. He is a pillar of strength which she may lean on in times of duress, and his slave may take heart in knowing that he is there to Master her and maintain her in her slavery.

A Master will always pay the strictest attention to the feelings and emotional needs of his slave, fulfilling them when he deems it appropriate.

A Master seeks to learn more of himself from his slave, and is wise enough to know that he is not always correct. He expects his slave to allow him to discover these things for himself.

A Master understands that each partner gains most from fulfilling the other’s needs, be they the need to serve or the need to command. It is a natural balance.

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